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To: Paul Kalanithi

Designation: Author, “When Breath Becomes Air”

A Reflection of When Breath Becomes Air by Paul Kalanithi

Dear Dr. Paul Kalanithi,

I write to you with immense respect and profound appreciation for what your memoir, "When Breath Becomes Air," inspired in me. Regardless of the life-and-death differences that separate us, your written legacy has created an indestructible bond that transcends these obstacles. As an avid reader and student of life, I have always appreciated books that inspire introspection; Franz Kafka beautifully described such literature as serving as an "axe for the frozen sea within us." Your memoir certainly resonates with this sentiment; not only did it break open my frozen self-discovery sea, but it has also sent ripples through every aspect of my existence.

Your captivating narrative has provided me with a vivid portrait of the tension in life between aspirations and mortality, from your transition from neurosurgeon with immense potential to terminal illness patient, providing me with a profound perspective of its fleeting nature and my mortality.

One passage that resonated strongly with me was when you said, “You cannot ever reach perfection, but you can believe in an asymptote toward which you are ceaselessly striving" (Kalanithi, 2016, p. 96). This statement provoked thought for both personal and professional consideration. It reminded me that perfection is an unattainable ideal; therefore, its pursuit should be seen as a journey rather than a destination. Since then, this passage has become my mantra, encouraging me to strive ceaselessly while enjoying every step of my journey.

Your memoir touched me when you shared, "I began to realize that coming in such close contact with my mortality had changed both nothing and everything" (Kalanithi, 2016, p. 170). This striking statement captured the essence of your struggle while at the same time prompting me to consider our fleeting lives and how being aware of mortality can alter how we see life, love, and purpose in new ways. Since that realization came my way, I cherish each moment more thankfully while viewing my journey through a more appreciative lens.

Your memoir spoke directly to my experience as I watched someone I love grapple with a terminal illness. Your expressions of pain, uncertainty, and searching for meaning amidst chaos echoed what I experienced firsthand; it provided comforting (albeit melancholic) knowledge that these emotions and struggles are universal human ones - your words provided solace by reflecting my experience and validating my feelings.

You have demonstrated a distinctive and inspiring form of courage through your memoir. Despite a grim diagnosis, you were able to face your fate with grace, authenticity, and an unyielding spirit - an inspiring depiction of resilience and optimism during difficult times.

Your memoir serves as an exemplar of purpose and passion, showing me the significance of both. Even as your health declined, your dedication to work and family remained undiminished, inspiring me to find meaning while cultivating a deep appreciation for all relationships I am immersed in. Dr. Kalanithi, your memoir has had an indelible imprint on my life. Not only has it inspired reflection and personal development, but it also opened my eyes to life's complexity. Your courage, resilience, and eloquence continue to move me and many others who enjoy entering...